The Modern Dating Program
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the same kind of
emotionally unavailable men?
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You may be dating from a place of fear
Fear of being alone, fear of not being good enough, fear of settling. You lower your standards to keep a man interested, compromise your needs, and end up in disappointing relationships.
If you've been finding little success in dating and relationships. Maybe an ex-relationship left a wound in you. Maybe the men you meet only seem to want to have fun.
You notice yourself walking over your own standards and values, for men who are emotionally unavailable and were never meant to be with you.
This comes from dating stress, false expectations, and from the way dating itself has changed in the 21st century.
Just 50 years ago, it was clear how dating worked. Family introductions, church, social circles, dropping your hat in front of a man you liked so he'd pick it up and start a conversation.
Now it seems like the high value men are only attracted to social media models, and even if you become one, you still end up attracting the wrong kind of men.
Feminism and gender equality gave women their well-deserved rights. It also gave them a new challenge.
As women increased their masculine energy, men increased their feminine energy in return. More men now feel entitled to love and sex.
They think women will magically approach them and initiate romantic or sexual contact (also called the porn myth), or that if they befriend a girl while hiding their real intentions, she'll eventually decide to sleep with them (the nice guy syndrome).
Many women think something is wrong with them because they're not attracted to nice guys, and are instead attracted to men who ghost them and mistreat them.
The solution is to experience dating as a Modern Woman.
Push motivation
His action led to her reaction. Men approached, women responded.
Pull motivation
You don't chase. You become the thing that draws the right man in.
How do you attract the right man in 2026?
“Dropping your hat” in front of the man you like has different meanings in 2026. This is why it's important to learn to tweak your environment to make it easy for men to approach you, and once they do approach you, and you do like them, to keep them interested and make them meet your standards.
The last thing you want is to attract narcissistic men and ones who are only capable of sex and short fun but not a serious relationship. This is the price most women pay when they date from a place of fear and when they don't understand how Modern Dating works today.
Your psychologist
Joey Sassine
Joey is a licensed clinical psychologist. He has worked with over 300 women through breakups, dating, relationships, cheating recovery, and divorce over the years.
He has compacted the outcomes and lessons from over 1,000 sessions into this program.
Here you will
- 01Find the exact pattern connecting every relationship that didn't work, and learn to be secure instead of performing for love
- 02Understand how to push away emotionally unavailable men and attract only high value men
- 03Learn to spot emotionally unavailable men from the first week
- 04Understand what actually creates attraction, and close the gap in what you actually know about sex and intimacy
- 05Keep narcissists away from you, and only invest in mature men
What you're getting
Every plan includes all five below. The private sessions are optional, and come with the higher plans.
The Modern Dating Course
29 lessons across 9 chapters. It takes you from seeing your pattern, to dropping the stress habits that come with it, to communicating without chasing, to holding real boundaries.
The Modern Dating App
Practice the conversation before you have it, and the text before you send it. It simulates the situations you actually run into with men and walks you through handling them.
The Modern Dating Circle
A private Telegram community of women doing the same work at the same time.
Ask Joey Access
DM Joey directly about a real situation you are in.
Weekly group calls
A live group call every week where Joey works through the situations you are all in right now, together.
Private Sessions with Joey
A private session with Joey every week, to go through what's actually happening in your dating life and figure out exactly what to do next. Comes with the higher plans.
Choose your level of access
Renews after the billing period, cancel any time before the next billing cycle.
Core
For women who want the full system and a community to apply it with.
$29.90per week
- The Modern Dating Course (29 lessons)
- The Modern Dating App
- The Modern Dating Circle
- Ask Joey Access
- Weekly group calls
Private
Most popularThe full system, with private sessions with Joey on top of it.
$106.50per week
- Includes Core
- Private 1-on-1 sessions every week
- Your Dating Pattern Map
- Priority DM access to Joey
Sprint
One timeOne payment, four intensive weeks, everything switched on from day one.
$340.80one time, 4 weeks
- Includes Private
- A free onboarding call to start
- Intensive one-to-one 4-week format
Modern Dating · 7-Day Trial
Try the whole program for 7 days, just $7
After your 7 days, this becomes Core at $29.90 per week. Cancel anytime before it renews and you are not charged again.
Let's be honest
What if I do this, and nothing changes?
The content that you will be exposed to, the sessions you will go through, the training you will do on the app are all wind blowing your boat towards the right direction, but you still must do the rowing yourself.
But if you start and after the first week realize that this isn't for you, or that you are not making any progress, message us and we will refund you.
You become a better version of yourself, most suited for dating and relationships, and make friends with likeminded women going through the same challenge.
You learn a set of skills and information that will be helpful in your romantic interactions. And you still get your money back.
Why what you've tried so far hasn't worked
Therapy
Therapy is built for the long term, long commitment, and it's built to address mental health issues, not to train you on relationships specifically. No therapist is going to tell you to get on dating apps, or which pictures to use on your social media to actually signal value. That's just not what therapy is built to do.
Self-Help Books
Self-help books give you information, and information on its own rarely changes behavior. There's no community around you, no one holding you accountable, and no way to practice what you just heard on your own situation. You also can't ask a book a question. So you finish the chapter motivated, and a week later you're back in the same pattern.
Social media influencers
Most of them have no credentials, and the algorithm rewards whoever says what you already want to hear. The advice is built for views, not for you. There's also no context, no one asked about your history, your patterns, or the man you're actually dealing with. And no single piece of advice fits every woman.
Frequently asked questions
Is this therapy?
Not exactly. Therapy addresses your overall mental health, this program is built specifically around fixing your relationship pattern, teaching you what to actually do, and letting you practice it before you're in the real situation. If you're dealing with something like depression or trauma, therapy is still where you start, alongside or before this.
Modern Dating is a psychology-based training system for dating and relationships, built by a licensed clinical psychologist. The courses take what actually works in the clinic, your attachment style, the patterns you repeat, boundaries and communication, and turn it into things you can use this week with the man in front of you. The app lets you rehearse the conversation and the text before you send it. The community keeps you accountable while you apply it. And on the higher plans you get one on one sessions with Joey on what is actually happening in your dating life.
Will this actually work for me?
That depends on whether you actually use it. The lessons, the app, and the community only work if you show up for them. What matters is that this framework comes from over 1,000 real client sessions, not theory, so if you follow it the way it's laid out, you'll see real movement on your pattern.
I just went through a breakup, is this the right time for me to start?
Yes. A lot of the women Joey works with start right after a breakup. This isn't only about finding someone new, it's about understanding the pattern that was actually running underneath what just ended, so you don't carry it straight into whatever comes next. Just make sure you start with the breakup section.
How long will it take before I actually see a difference in who I attract?
It depends on how deep the pattern goes and how consistently you work through the lessons and the app. Most women start noticing themselves catching the pattern in real time within the first week, that's the first shift, before the outside results show up.
I feel like I've missed my window, most women my age are already settled. Is it too late for me?
No. The pattern is what's been getting in the way, not your age. Once that changes, everything downstream of it changes too.
What if I'm not talking to anyone right now, is this still going to help me?
Yes. Most of this is about you, not about a specific guy. You go through it whether you're single, dating around, or already in something you're unsure about.
What if I try all of this and still end up attracted to the same type of guy?
That reaction is actually part of what we work on. Attraction to a pattern doesn't disappear overnight, the work is learning to recognize it early and choose differently before you're already invested.
Do I have to commit to this long term?
No. You can cancel Core or Private before your next weekly renewal with no penalty, or start with Sprint, which is one payment for 4 weeks with no recurring commitment at all.
Is my information private?
Yes. Anything you share with Joey directly, in sessions or through Ask Joey Access, stays between you and him. The Telegram community is separate, and only includes what you choose to share there.
What's the actual difference between Core and Private?
Core gives you the full course, the app, the community, and Ask Joey Access. Private adds a private 1:1 session with Joey every week, for when you want guidance on your specific situation, not just the general framework.
Do you offer refunds?
Yes. If you go through the material and genuinely feel you're not benefiting from your paid membership, Joey will refund it. That refund applies to Core and Private.
The Modern Dating Program
How do you get into the relationship you want?
If you start and after the first week realize this isn't for you, message us and we will refund you.
One on one with Joey
Want to talk it through with Joey first?
Book a private session, bring the situation you are actually in, and leave knowing what to do next.